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Thanks for all the nice comments people. I will take them to heart! It is nice to know you care! Kind regards to all on the Community, apologies for any offended. For the record: Been to Eastern Europe to Poland, Ukraine, Belarus, Romania so I am willing to spend money. Yes, it is more convenient, not the long distance love affair, if one was to be found already in USA. I considered it an option is all. I am not rich but I have sacrificed in order to care for women I "thought" cared abou tme. I never complained, I gladly gave from my heart as I thught I should. A man takes care of the woman in his life. How I was raised, so sorry if that offends people. My anger? Like I said none of you know me or care to find out, so what does it matter in the scheme of things? The anger is frustration more than anything. I thought by posting to this Forum I might have a venue to insight, not constant criticisms. You have voiced your views, and I have listened, so thanks for the constructive I was able to gleen out of it. Hope this is short enough Mr. Moderator.

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Reggie - Now you are being diplomatic. Things are picking up! But I'm afraid my impression of you has worsened in the last 24 hours. My impression is that you are a decadent old man trolling this web site hoping some young desperate girl will hope you are actually a nice generous old man. My impression is that, actually, you are a manipulative, cruel and horrible person. Yes - the reason your belarussuian wife spit in your face is because you abused her. Why else? I could be wrong. But I doubt it. Why don't you just head over to www.eros.com and pay for what you really want? Or are you more like the cat that enjoys torturing the mouse? You have a lot of pent up anger. Basically, I see a sign over your head that says: STAY AWAY!! I could be wrong. Don't bother attacking me back. You don't want to start looking over your shoulder. "Drunk sorceress seeks sorcerer..."

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Message James Bond: Your impression of me is your opinion. I am not going to attack you. Would you like the police reports I had to file? Would you like a copy of the Court Ordered Eviction on my ex-Belarussain wife (signed by a judge after proof was given of the abuse......to me). But heh, it's a matter of public record. No, it isn't possible I could actually be right? God forgive! No, I am not interested in the Eros site, but thanks. Looking over my shoulder, well heh, maybe a new past-time. Am I worried, no! am I capable of causing worry, certainly yes! Been there done that, very effectively. Family connections you know, but hell, no one on this site knows nothing of me or my background, other than being a horrible, woman abusing, over the hill, desperately seeking Russian babe, trolling for the unsuspecting guy. What do I have to worry about. Not you! But thanks for the heads up. Hehy, it's your forum so who am I to argue. No point. I am however going to pass thi sposting on to some people who do know me and quite eloquent in the blog. Maybe they can help enlighten, who knows.

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Dear, reggiem56! I am not a dude, I am that mother, that will never approve, if my daughter (28) will marry a man of 51 ( her father is 52).... And I am not a coward, I am just one of those 'strong Russian women', you admire so much.

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Jkash: Sorry for the mislabeling. OK, you stated your view. I respect that. You did not have to be so beligerant about the whole deal. Just because you would not allow your 28 yo daughter to marry an older man, 51, is for you and you alone. Your view is not shared by 100% of the female mother population (or daughter). That's what makes the world so unique. Everyone is not the same, YET you would impart that your view is God stricken word. sorry to burst your bubble, it is not. OK, so her father is 52. I am not her father or any other younger woman's father, I am a man. Your view is that I am some lowly, desperate man, trolling for unsuspecting Russian babes out of the cradle. Well, last I heard age 28 is a woman, not a little girl. And the age difference is based on the comfort level and maturity of the woman. I said I would like to meet someone under 40 (for children). So I guess you should run off, utilizing your "strong" Russian opinion and tell a 40 year old woman she better run to momma cause the dirly old man of 51 comes knocking on her door. I have dated as young as 28. Her momma, albeit Romanian is a year older than me (52). Not once did she ever make me feel the shit like you people do. I was welcomed in her home and she could see I had a genuine care for her daughter, and thought it was wonderful. The mom treated me as a son and I was a year younger than her! Oh, well, maybe a lesson learned there. Yes, age was a consideration, but not the deal breaker for any of them. It was the love and care from my heart that they saw, the desire to make someone happy, be faithful and devoted, and that was important for them. It's all about attitudes. For you, your attitude is different than mine (or others), but that doesn't make yours absolute! If it does, then please care to explain how you became God Almighty saying what is right and wrong regarding love? I am open to learn. So you are different. OK. Make your daughter proud. I am sure she will adore and love the man you select for her to marry.

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I'm curious about the 'dating' tour you took to Eastern Europe. What was your impression of that? I've seen the sites promoting those tours for like $1,500 for a 10 day tour including introductions and lodging. Would you do that again? That seems like a better alternative than surfing sites like this.... I don't blame you for wanting to date younger women. But I do think you are going to have a very hard time of it here in the USA (and certainly on this site). "Seeking Russian beauty..."

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Dear Reggie! Do not worry about my daughter... She is proud of me that is right, as I of her. But for different reasons. Not in a million years I would assume a responsibility to choose a husband for her, no way! BTW her fiancé is 31... This is the wrong forum to solicit women (especially with your requirements), even much younger ones could not succeed. And, sorry you are just asking to be ridiculed (or used by some 30 years old illegal or gold digger).

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This message is for all except Reggie (please, no offence, only my curiosity): Don’t you think that’s really strange tendency: I saw already several American men, who’ve been married Russian women. Used for legalization and divorced with lost of property and money, they still naively believe that there is chance to meet and fall in love with Russian pretty girl, the person with absolutely different culture, breeding ,values and etc. Is it some specific type of men having addiction? Or if some of them never learn a lesson? What is it in Russian attracting them so hard? What’s going on in their mind? ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ У кошек есть примета: если дорогу перебежит негр, удачи не жди...)

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Originally posted by iness927: What’s going on in their mind?

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OK, this is on a somewhat different (?:-) topic: ______________ The American Psychiatric Association (APA) is the main professional organization of psychiatrists and trainee psychiatrists in the United States, and the most influential world-wide. Its some 148,000 members are mainly American but some are international. The association publishes various journals and pamphlets, as well as the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, or DSM. The DSM codifies psychiatric conditions and is used world-wide as a key guide to diagnosing disorders. ____________ Darn! Is APA indeed MOST influential in the world? What happened to European psychiatric research? anyone knows? from what I see around here, APA is not doing a good job fixing mentally challenged. Reggie, maybe you could explain this?

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Regarding Ines927: Interesting that this person bring up a valid point. Why is it a concensus of Russian women (beautiful or not) marry American men, come to the USA under the guise of love, get their greencard and then divorce and take the man for all he has? My take is pure greed and selfishness on the woman's part. But then, Ines927 comment sheds a blackness on the Russian culture if I read it right. Russians only intent to steal and take? Well, I for one do not think all Russians (women) are like that, maybe I am wrong. I know good Russian people and glad to call them friends. Granted the quest has been arduous, letters written to me plagued in deceit. YOu ask why haven't I learned my lesson after all this, especially with the bashing I get on this site? I think the Russian women have values I wish to have in my life and that they are a good people. One apple doesn't make the whole lot bad. If I am fool to believe your comment, then there is no hope for any American seeking love of a Russian woman to succeed, your point is that these women will use us and throw us away when they get what they want. You make it sound impossible that a 30-40 yo can find any interest or love in a man 51. OK, then it is impossible, for YOU! Not me. And we are talking about me, right? Not you! I will keep trying and if I fail, what is it to you? Just goes to show you there are people in this world who can not give encouragement but only drag other people down by their own insecurities or hang ups. I was raised to be a help on people, not a drag. Guess that is the main difference between me and you. I encourage people, I don't put them down. Perhaps I won't find any eligible under 40 Russian women here off the site, but if only one hears of me and finds interest, then that is all it takes! They know how to find me! Should I start blogging my other friends and tell them Russian women is a lost cause Ines927? Maybe China or other places since Russian women so despicable?????? I guess the Russian women will then be content to be with the drunken, abusive, unemployed Russian men I always hear them complaining about. OK. I can get the word out! My pleasure!

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Originally posted by iness927: This message is for all except Reggie (please, no offence, only my curiosity): Don’t you think that’s really strange tendency: I saw already several American men, who’ve been married Russian women. Used for legalization and divorced with lost of property and money, they still naively believe that there is chance to meet and fall in love with Russian pretty girl, the person with absolutely different culture, breeding ,values and etc. Is it some specific type of men having addiction? Or if some of them never learn a lesson? What is it in Russian attracting them so hard? What’s going on in their mind? ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ У кошек есть примета: если дорогу перебежит негр, удачи не жди...)

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In my opinion, it's not a 'Russian' thing only. I don't really think Russian women are that much different than American women when it comes to relationships. In fact, I think they are more challenging. Older men wanting younger women is the oldest story around. I like dating younger women. And plenty of women like dating older men (5 or 10 years difference is not uncommon - 20 is pushing it). It's a numbers game. I get the impression Reggie is a persistant guy. Eventually, he will find another young woman. Good for him. When I turn 52 maybe I'll go on one of those dating vacations to Eastern Europe. "Seeking Russian beauty..."

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Message James Bond: I do not think I ever said I took a dating tour to Eastern Europe. All my travel has been privately arranged to meet a specific woman. These tours are basically rip offs, the biggest being under the name of Atlanta's own European Connection run by Art Steckel. They get (pay) beautiful women to be profiled in their magazines and Internet site to lure men (visual thing again but affects their pants LOL's). then they advertise the tours to meet these women, bring them to big cities and have ladies waiting (marriage-minded you know) to meet them. What most men do not know (they do not educate themself properly) is that prior to the trip, the agents in the cities send out flyers to women to attend the socials, free food and drinks, chance to meet American men. WOW....free food and drinks. So everyone shows up. They are encouraged to be polite and show some interest in the men, utilize translators (men have to pay for service) and "hook" them. I have friends who have met.....married women with children and husband at home, prostitutes looking for payment of services, what gifts or money they can get from a guy, a steady boyfriend. In other words, the vast majority of these women who attend the socials are in fact, NOT marriage minded women the American men have been led to believe. Does this happen in all cases, NO! But it happens more than it should. I call it false advertising and the word is getting out. That and the bad rap the marriage agency industry is getting on the plague of Internet Scammers. The money is drying up and the men becoming more educated and less tolerant of the deceit. If I have my way, many of these agencies will get shut down for lack of money. What the Russian's (I speak of marriage agency) don't seem to get, is that you don't have to steal to get money. There have to be real, marriage minded women who would perhaps like to come to the USA. If that is so, only allow them to post. Instead, the agencies do a great visual marketing job of posting "hollywood babes" to lure men and their fantasies, to be more willing to let go there money. I try to educate them on the pitfalls and what to look for. I do not expect to find a "hollywood babe", but yes it is a fantasy, so what? I hope to find a genuine and sincere woman that I am attracted to. Do you know the woman I would be attracted too? No, so do not even attempt judgment on me in that regard. That is pure arrogance on your part. If you know me, then it is a different story. Again age is the comfort and maturity of the woman. My 33 yo ex-eife has the maturity of a 12 year old. I have dated 28 yo (sorry Jkash to burst your bubble) with maturity of a 40 yo. Every one is different. My attempts may be in vain, especially on this site, but I am sure there is one woman in this world who can recognize and understand what I am trying to convey and perhaps, they will contact me. If she does, I will let you all know. Would be nice to make you all eat crow, but that is not my intent. Bless day! Jkash, congrats for your daughter and her 31 yo fiancee. I wish them a life of happiness and love! I mean that sincerely. Everyone deserves love. Well, except me! LOL's

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Originally posted by reggiem56: Message James Bond: I do not think I ever said I took a dating tour to Eastern Europe. All my travel has been privately arranged to meet a specific woman. These tours are basically rip offs, the biggest being under the name of Atlanta's own European Connection run by Art Steckel. They get (pay) beautiful women to be profiled in their magazines and Internet site to lure men (visual thing again but affects their pants LOL's). then they advertise the tours to meet these women, bring them to big cities and have ladies waiting (marriage-minded you know) to meet them. What most men do not know (they do not educate themself properly) is that prior to the trip, the agents in the cities send out flyers to women to attend the socials, free food and drinks, chance to meet American men. WOW....free food and drinks. So everyone shows up. They are encouraged to be polite and show some interest in the men, utilize translators (men have to pay for service) and "hook" them. I have friends who have met.....married women with children and husband at home, prostitutes looking for payment of services, what gifts or money they can get from a guy, a steady boyfriend. In other words, the vast majority of these women who attend the socials are in fact, NOT marriage minded women the American men have been led to believe. Does this happen in all cases, NO! But it happens more than it should. I call it false advertising and the word is getting out. That and the bad rap the marriage agency industry is getting on the plague of Internet Scammers. The money is drying up and the men becoming more educated and less tolerant of the deceit. If I have my way, many of these agencies will get shut down for lack of money. What the Russian's (I speak of marriage agency) don't seem to get, is that you don't have to steal to get money. There have to be real, marriage minded women who would perhaps like to come to the USA. If that is so, only allow them to post. Instead, the agencies do a great visual marketing job of posting "hollywood babes" to lure men and their fantasies, to be more willing to let go there money. I try to educate them on the pitfalls and what to look for. I do not expect to find a "hollywood babe", but yes it is a fantasy, so what? I hope to find a genuine and sincere woman that I am attracted to. Do you know the woman I would be attracted too? No, so do not even attempt judgment on me in that regard. That is pure arrogance on your part. If you know me, then it is a different story. Again age is the comfort and maturity of the woman. My 33 yo ex-eife has the maturity of a 12 year old. I have dated 28 yo (sorry Jkash to burst your bubble) with maturity of a 40 yo. Every one is different. My attempts may be in vain, especially on this site, but I am sure there is one woman in this world who can recognize and understand what I am trying to convey and perhaps, they will contact me. If she does, I will let you all know. Would be nice to make you all eat crow, but that is not my intent. Bless day! Jkash, congrats for your daughter and her 31 yo fiancee. I wish them a life of happiness and love! I mean that sincerely. Everyone deserves love. Well, except me! LOL's

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Man, if you've done Art Steckel thing - you have done it all! i'm surprused the guy is still alive...LOL

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